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Delaying Pleasure

April 6th, 2011 at 04:05 am

I was reading yesterday's blog post on http://christianpf.com/6-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-bo... and a sentence in Craig's post really got me thinking. He stated, "...what they don’t tell you is that today’s pleasures becomes tomorrow’s burden."

This is so true. As Americans we have become conditioned to expect instant gratification. If we want something, we just purchase it on our credit card and we'll worry about paying it later when the bill comes. Seldom do we make ourselves, or our children, wait until we can actually afford (i.e. have the cash to pay for) whatever that new shiny object is that has caught our eye. We want it and we want it now! As Dave Ramsey likes to say, we have ruled out the ancient word "no" from our language.

What do we gain by waiting to make a purchase? Often if we'll wait, we will lose the desire to buy whatever it is we thought we couldn't live without. So many things are bought on impulse and then quickly set aside and forgotten. I have things that fit that description all over my house. Had to have them at the time, never use them now.

We build character when we make ourselves wait. We learn the lesson that we do not have to have everything right this minute.

We quite often save money when we make ourselves wait. We might find that item somewhere else at a discount, at a garage sale for a fraction of the price, or even decide we really don't need to buy it at all.

And we sometimes save ourselves a lot of stress by waiting to make a purchase because we don't have that burden later in the month of trying to find the money to pay for it.

Is there an item that you've wanted to buy lately that you've put off purchasing? What benefit have you reaped from waiting?

3 Responses to “Delaying Pleasure”

  1. NJDebbie Says:

    A car. We've been looking to buy a new car because my DS#2 will get his license this month. We've resisted the urge to purchase cars every time we go to the dealers and I'm glad. Eventually, we'll have to make a decision but for now my DS#2 can continue to take the bus to school and he can use my car on the weekend. This will help us explore other options like buying a new to us used car and save money.

    P.S. I love Christian PF also!

  2. Ima saver Says:

    The closest mall is a two hour drive, one way. I find that I have saved a lot of money by not going to malls any more. I have not been in about 12 years.

  3. momcents Says:

    While rotating DH's closet from spring/summer to fall/winter, we noticed he is in need of some new things. I am usually an end of season shopper. Good thing that I didn't buy anything on clearance because he's since gone from 228 to 199. I did find an EUC shirt at the resale store for $8 that I did buy.

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